Monday, August 31, 2009
One Less Thing.
Sunday, August 30, 2009
Another Anniversary of My 29th Birthday.
Saturday, August 29, 2009
We Made It.
It's official. We made it through our first week of the 2009-2010 school year. And despite all my worrying, everything worked out great. The boys have easily adjusted to the change. They've made many new friends and the younger two have pretty much forgotten they ever attended another school. I would never have thought I would be able to say that 3 days into the year. No tears or screaming or boys being angry with me for this decision. In fact, I'm hearing a lot more "please and thank you" and otherwise respectful words out of their mouths this week.
Friday, August 28, 2009
The Teacher That Changed My Life.
It was a complete fluke I ever ended up in Evelyn Askey's high school art class. I suppose I can thank Kelli, my 8th grade best friend, for that twist of fate. Sitting next to her filling out my 9th grade class schedule, I needed an elective. Kelli chose art. So I chose art. You don’t know how many times I wonder where I’d be now if she had chosen agriculture instead.
Ms. Askey was one of those teachers that truly loved every part of her job. She was passionate about art and sharing it with her students. She took us on field trips to art galleries, she arranged tours of artist’s studios. She cried when Georgia O’Keefe died. She cared about the art community and she cared about her students. She cared about teaching. And we all knew it.
But most importantly, she believed in us. And having someone believe in you, that you can do something, that you can be someone, is a very empowering gift. Knowing what I wanted to do with my life and having such passion for it, made every other part of my life easier. I worked harder not just in art class, but in all of my classes. Art club became my life, art class was my reason to get up in the morning. I asked for extra assignments, I stayed after school. I carried a sketchbook everywhere I went. I wrote advertisements for school dances, sold donuts to earn money for an art club trip to New York City. And I visited the Metropolitan Museum of Art.
Me and Ms. Askey at my high school graduation. That's my Gramma in the background in the top photo.
Ms. Askey encouraged me to work harder, get better, do more. She submitted my artwork to national competitions where I won blue ribbons and gold keys. And with her help, I earned a scholarship to a college I would have never been able to attend otherwise. She wrote me letters of encouragement the first year I was away. Letters which I will cherish forever.
Sadly, she passed away a few years ago. And when the news let out that she was dying, I hear she received an outpouring of letters from her students. All thanking her for changing their lives, and encouraging her to somehow beat the cancer she was battling. You better believe I had a letter in that pile and I was grateful to have had the chance to let her know how much she meant to me.
Every day of my life I am grateful I walked into that art room. Every single day.
Wednesday, August 26, 2009
I Can Tell That We Are Gonna Be Friends.
“fall is here, hear the yell
back to school, ring the bell
brand new shoes, walking blues
climb the fence, book and pens
i can tell that we are gonna be friends”
My sons started school today. Scratch that. After 7 years, my sons began a new school today. With much preparation, they all seem to be fine and are actually very excited about the change. Me? Well, I’ve been a bundle of nerves for a week, I can’t do anything today but wonder how they are doing. Frankly, I’m counting down the minutes until I pick them up this afternoon to see how their day went.
Academically, my boys will be fine. It's the friend thing I always worry about. School is so much easier when you have a good friend by your side. So throughout this nerve wracking morning, my favorite back to school song plays over and over in my head.
I can’t help but hope that my little guy finds a new friend like the one in the song. Someone to chase ants and worms with.
And that my middle son finds a partner in crime, someone to share a giggle with. There’s nothing like listening to his infectious laugh.
My oldest? He’s the one I worry about the most. I pray he can find a friend or two that he feels comfortable around. I hope his year is filled with good things and people that are kind to him. A true friend or two to play video games with, ski with, confide in. And I truly hope he comes home with plans for a sleepover in the immediate future.
“…and when i wake tomorrow i'll bet
that you and i will walk together again
cause i can tell that we
are going to be friends”
Tuesday, August 25, 2009
15 hours and 13 minutes.
- Celebrated my middle guys 9th birthday this summer. A birthday that will go down as the year I locked the entire family out of the house (and car) on the way to his birthday dinner. I will never hear the end of this. Never.
- Sleepovers anyone? The boys slept over, had sleep overs, slept in each other's rooms. They were nomads.
- After 17 years, the washer finally gave out. This was the year I entered the 20th century and bought the front loader. For the record I miss the old machine terribly.
- It was a life changing summer. Decided to spend our life living life and not living in the car. We walked to get ice cream, rode bikes to get lunch and drove 2 miles to the pool instead of 30.
- This was the year our youngest was old enough to join his brothers on the swim team. And also the year our new team beat the old team.
- My baby lost his first tooth this summer. How can that be?
- We made wonderful new friends and kept the old ones.
- We watched old friends move out of town and in turn, gained a new city to visit.
- Coldstone Creamery makes cupcakes. Big discovery this summer.
- Business was good the summer of 2009. Received recognition from Martha Stewart, completed my first official celebrity order, worked with clients in Australia, Canada and the U.K. Saw my work in a magazine. Awesome, awesome, awesome.
- This was the year Michael Jackson passed away. And my hard rock music lover son discovered pop wasn’t so bad after all. Still working on that moon walk.
- Got to see the inside of a toll booth this summer. Really could have gone without that experience.
- We became a family with an overpriced and never used basketball hoop at the end of our driveway.
- Learned how to play ghosts in the graveyard and stayed up until midnight playing it.
- We didn’t go to the beach this summer. And that was okay.
- Our family ate our body weight in hamburgers, mini corn dogs and ice cream sandwiches. We drank soda. Bed times no longer existed. We got up late and there were days the boys never changed out of their pajamas. We didn’t always collect the mail. The boys played too many video games and watched too many movies. We ate candy and didn’t always brush our teeth. We relaxed.
Monday, August 24, 2009
The Kid in the Middle of the Class.
Yikes! Look at the hair in 6th grade. All of middle school was tough for me, actually. I wasn’t the smartest, I wasn’t the prettiest, I wasn’t the funniest and I admit I certainly wasn’t the nicest. Heaven knows I wasn’t athletic. Last one picked in gym class? Always me. Growing up in middle school, I always felt like I was just…there. Not really noticed, not really important. I was just there.
If you’re a teacher, chances are you have a student like me in your class. Not a trouble maker, so you won’t need to dedicate time watching their every move. Not a genius or a brown noser, so they won’t stand out or draw attention to themselves. There will be a kid in your classroom that will do average work, follow the rules, and won’t cause you any trouble. They’ll go unnoticed. I hope as the school year begins, you’ll take a minute to seek out that kid, I know from experience they won’t come to you. But I hope you’ll notice that kid and let them feel important, no matter what you’re teaching. They may not tell you how much it means to them now, but I can guarantee you, the rest of their life they will be grateful to you.
Fortunately for me, I had such a teacher in high school. And she changed my life forever.
Sunday, August 23, 2009
Back to School Wine for Back to School Week.
Saturday, August 22, 2009
52 Manholes.
Love the various patterns and details, never really stopped to observe them before. Funny the little things you notice when you allow yourself time to slow down and look around.
Friday, August 21, 2009
A Song for a Snapdragon.
A few of the blooms in my garden are pictured above. They have spread everywhere. None of these plants were planted this year, all have surprised me by returning. The colors are an even bigger surprise, as I've only bought the pink variety in the center. I think the garden is trying to tell me I need to add more color.
Thursday, August 20, 2009
Stamp Collecting.
Wednesday, August 19, 2009
Shopping with Boys and Wooloomooloo.
Yesterday was day 68 of summer vacation for the boys. For 67 days, we have had a wonderful time hanging at the pool, relaxing, eating our body weight in ice cream. Good times. That was until we went school shopping.
And everything fell apart.
Let me give you a brief synopsis of school shopping with 3 boys (and a husband).
Why do we have to go? Because I need your foot with me in order to buy you shoes. Can’t you just trace my foot instead? You’re going. Stand up straight so we can measure your feet. These shoes are too tight. They hurt. (My children have been in flip flops or barefoot the entire summer. Socks feel tight at this point). Walk around and see if they fit. I said walk. Stop running. Get back here now. Stop touching your brother. Stop touching your brother. Are you touching your brother? Leave your brother alone. Yes, you have to try the pants on. Stop touching your brother. Stop licking the mirror. Stop touching your brother. Are you kidding me, no, I will not buy you candy. How many more stores are we going to? He’s touching me. It takes a lot longer when you horse around. Oh, Dear Lord, are you seriously touching your brother. I have to go to the bathroom again. How many more stores are we going to? I swear if you don’t stop touching your brother. You can ask me as many times as you want, but I’m still not buying you candy. Get away from your brother. Look, Mom, my leg is bleeding in my shoe! You can't possibly have to go to the bathroom again. For the last time, get your hands off of your brother! This is the worst afternoon of my life.
And as much fun as that sounds, the day ended with us getting stuck in rush hour traffic for a solid hour. I’ll let you imagine how enjoyable that was after an exciting shopping excursion.
All of this led to a bonus “Cheap Wine with Pretty Labels” post.
Wooloomooloo is a Red Blend from South Eastern Australia. The wine was good. Quite honestly, this probably wasn’t the best day to have me pay attention to the taste of wine. You could have given me a glass of swill and I would’ve been thrilled.
So here’s my review. Cool label, good (much needed) wine. Cheap ($7.99). As for the name? I am positive it’s a swear word that means school shopping sucks.
Tuesday, August 18, 2009
I'm Winning the Lottery and Buying a Herd of Sheep.
I'll need to win the lottery first, though. Each one of these awesome little guys is $1199. Yikes. Saw that price tag and quickly backed away. Spotted him at Arhaus Furniture while school shopping today (you'll read all about that disaster in an entirely different blog post).
Sunday, August 16, 2009
I Don't Know What I'm Drinking, But It Sure Is Tasty.
- The label is okay, but it doesn't really scream out at me. I like a label that makes me need to buy it. This one is artsy, but not all that interesting.
- I've promised to keep the price range at $10.00 or under. This bottle went over my budget by 99 cents.
- I like to write about wines I've never sampled before for this series. Busted. Second time I've tried this one.
Saturday, August 15, 2009
Now Playing.
- "Forever" Chris Brown (downloaded after I couldn't get the music from the infamous YouTube wedding video out of my head).
- "Thank You" Alanis Morrisette
- "Love is My Religion" Ziggy Marley
- "Boston" Augustana. I've listened to it 47 times. As soon as I'm done this post, I'm gonna go listen to it again.
- "Come Clean" Hilary Duff. Punished myself by listening to this 22 times. I don't know what I was thinking.
- "Gravity Rides Everything" Modest Mouse. 20 times.
- Green Day
- AC/DC
- Dave Matthews Band
- "All You Wanted" Michelle Branch. In my brain, I totally rock at this one.
- "Where I Stood" Missy Higgins
- "Breathe (2 AM)" Anna Nalick
Just plain awesome songs every iPod needs:
- "Mustang Sally" Wilson Pickett
- "Long Cool Woman" The Hollies
- "Starry Eyed Surprise" Paul Oakenfold. Try not to dance to this one. I dare you.
- "Son of a Preacher Man" Dusty Springfield
- "Should I Stay or Should I Go" The Clash
- "Chain of Fools" Aretha Franklin
- "Brown Eyed Girl" Van Morrison
- "Lean On Me" Bill Withers
Friday, August 14, 2009
Catch Another Butterfly.
Do you remember days not so very long ago
When the world was run by people twice your size?
And the days were full of laughter
And the nights were full of stars
And when you grew tired you could close your eyes
Yes the stars were there for wishing
And the wind was there for kites
And the morning sun was there for rise and shine
And even if the sniffles kept you
Home from school in bed
You couldn't hardly stay there after nine
And I wonder if the smell of morning's faded
What happened to the robin's song
That sparkled in the sky?
Where's all the water gone
That tumbled down a stream?
Will I ever catch another butterfly?
Do you remember campouts right in your own backyard?
Wondering how airplanes could fly
And the hours spent just playin'
With a funny rock you found
With crystal specks as blue as all the sky
And I wonder if the smell of morning's faded
What happened to the robin's song
That sparkled in the sky?
Where's all the water gone
That tumbled down a stream?
Will I ever catch another butterfly?
Now I watch my son, he's playin' with his toys
He's happy, I give him all I can
But I can't help feelin'
Just a little tingly inside
When I hear him say he wants to be a man
And I wonder if the smell of morning's faded
What happened to the robin's song
That sparkled in the sky?
Where's all the water gone
That tumbled down a stream?
Will I ever catch another butterfly?
Will I ever catch another butterfly?
Thursday, August 13, 2009
No Vacancy.
Bedrooms were all numbered.
Monday, August 10, 2009
Six Things You Never Needed to Know About Me.
- I love her blog.
- Growing up she ate peanuts out of a bathtub in the town I live in. That totally won me over. (I should mention it was at a restaurant that, sadly, no longer exists).
- Post link to the person that tags you
- Post the rules
- Write six random and/or revealing things about yourself
- Tag six people at the end of the post and link to their blogs
- Let each person know they've been tagged & leave a comment on their blog
- Let the tagger know when your post has been published.
- Chuck Berry tripped and fell on me. And yes, Chuck Berry, the famous musician.
- I spent a summer packaging hot dogs in a freezer at a meat processing company. For the record, WORST. JOB. EVER. Oh, I still eat hot dogs. I should add that.
- I memorized the entire Lee Press On Nails TV commercial about 25 years ago. To this day, I can still recite it perfectly and with annunciation. "Introducing new Lee Press On Nails, they press on in seconds..." Okay, I'll stop.
- I collect watches and I quickly drain the batteries in every watch I wear. I never leave the house without one on.
- I have absolutely no sense of direction whatsoever. None. I get lost with a navigation system. "Make a legal u turn ahead"--you'll hear that a lot driving with me.
- If I had been born a boy, my mother was going to name me Ashley. So happy to be a girl.
Sunday, August 9, 2009
My New Favorite Wine and My Favorite Old Movie.
Saturday, August 8, 2009
OOooooohhh, Pretty Buttons.
Wednesday, August 5, 2009
Seven Boys, a Lifeguard and One Very Dead Bird.
Sunday, August 2, 2009
Cheap Wine with a Pretty Label
- I like wine.
- Wine is good.
- It's gotta be cheap (around $10 or under)
- It's gotta have an eye catching label.